More from Mansfield Park this week -- and more on the theme of knowing ourselves, and considering our actions. Horrible Mrs. Norris!
"Mrs. Norris had not the least intention of being at any expense whatever in [Fanny's] maintenance. As far as walking, talking, and contriving reached, she was thoroughly benevolent, and nobody knew better how to dictate liberality to others: but her love of money was equal to her love of directing, and she knew quite as well how to save her own as to spend that of her friends. ...
"Under this infatuating principle, counteracted by no real affection for her sister, it was impossible for her to aim at more than the credit of projecting and arranging so expensive a charity; though perhaps she might so little know herself, as to walk home to the Parsonage after this conversation, in the happy belief of being the most liberal-minded sister and aunt in the world."
Mansfield Park, volume 1, chapter 1 (emphasis mine)